Friday, December 30, 2011

"Guilt-Free" sex


January 1:

According to Smalley and Cunningham, in The Language of Sex: "Creativity is healthy and can be enjoyed "guilt-free" and with greater passion than ever."

Today ask your spouse the question - What parts of your body are you insecure about? What can I do to ease those insecurities?

Great Sex for 2012


The magazines have begun to arrive with titles like: "A New You," "Half My Size" and "Start Over." My husband faithfully goes to the YMCA every morning. His work-out buddies all warned him that the gym would be flooded starting next week. So, I've been thinking, we all have goals, resolutions, new things we want to try... but how many of us focus on improving what we have.

Before I got married, January was marked by whether I was "in a relationship" or "not." And that was before the days of Facebook. For the past fifteen years I have evaluated the status of our relationship based on good years or bad ones. There have been very good years and very trying years and a bunch in between.

This year I am publicly declaring that I commit to keep the romance, love, affection, and steadfastness alive in my marriage. I believe that by making that commitment... it will secure Great Sex for 2012.

Over the next month... stay tuned for ideas to wake up romance and receive updates on my relationship progress.